A good friend at frontfree always says “it is indeed still trickin’ if you got it, even more so.” Truer words have never been spoken. But how do you draw the fine lines between what is trickin’, sponsorship, and simply taking good care of your woman? I got the breakdown.
Trickin’: It is trickin’ if a man is spending exorbitant amounts of money on a woman and getting little to nothing in return. This woman may or may not be having sex with you but that doesn’t matter to the man because he is mostly in it for the enjoyment and/or attractiveness of her company. The most distinguishing of factors are a lack of any kind of relationship and the woman has little to no respect for the man. The man may also have little to no respect for the woman. But respect is not a factor, only money and the things his money can buy are important to her.
Sponsorship: Well, sponsors donate to make an event happen or better. In exchange for running a marathon, or hosting a charity gala, or promoting a cause companies will graciously donate money and services in exchange for involvement and advertisement. Similarly, women who have sponsors are exchanging services for goods or goods for services. I’m not calling anyone a ho or anything, I am just saying you have to be doing something to be sponsored. Even if the interests and rewards are lopsided, both parties must gain something of value, otherwise please refer to trickin.
Taking Care of a Woman: Whereas any ole body will do for the previous categories, she only accepts gifts from one man. They are in a committed relationship and love and respect each other. He is willing to do anything for her because she is willing to do anything for him. She has proven and established her worth and he recognizes it. Any woman can have a dude trickin or get a sponsor, but it takes a special lady to have the only man she respects and loves make sure that he gives her the best of whatever he has.
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